Comments on: Testy http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/ But I will cut a bi... Mon, 21 Dec 2009 04:29:04 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: honeywine http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1551 honeywine Fri, 07 Nov 2008 17:30:04 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1551 Pepper spray is sounding better and better. Unfortunately, I think he would have had to do more than whip out his whang for me to spray him. I can't stand to cause others pain most of the time...even if it is deserved. Pepper spray is sounding better and better. Unfortunately, I think he would have had to do more than whip out his whang for me to spray him. I can’t stand to cause others pain most of the time…even if it is deserved.

]]> By: lola http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1550 lola Fri, 07 Nov 2008 14:33:18 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1550 I second the pepper spray idea! My family would still be nice to my husband if we split up, but they wouldn't do it in front of me or bug me about the situation. They know better! A gum-snapping idiot at the registry peed in my kool-aid. I second the pepper spray idea! My family would still be nice to my husband if we split up, but they wouldn’t do it in front of me or bug me about the situation. They know better!

A gum-snapping idiot at the registry peed in my kool-aid.

]]> By: gingermagnolia http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1549 gingermagnolia Fri, 07 Nov 2008 13:33:27 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1549 I think it's time for Ginger to lay the smack down on their candy asses! And, gurrrrl, you needs to get you some pepper spray for when you go out! I think it’s time for Ginger to lay the smack down on their candy asses!

And, gurrrrl, you needs to get you some pepper spray for when you go out!

]]> By: Koolio http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1548 Koolio Fri, 07 Nov 2008 11:03:08 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1548 I take complete offense to that Kool-Aid comment. Especially since Kool-Aid already tastes like pee. Not that I would know what pee tastes like but...moving on. So let me see if I get this straight...your family is bashing you over this whole separation thing and taking M.'s side instead of supporting and your decision not to be in a relationship with him? I certainly can't and won't tell you what to do but if my family was handing me that shit, I would distance myself from them until they got a clue, however long that might take. I'm sending you lots of hugs. I've been through the separation and divorce and no matter if you're the one who's made the choice to end the marriage, it's still difficult for both sides. I take complete offense to that Kool-Aid comment. Especially since Kool-Aid already tastes like pee. Not that I would know what pee tastes like but…moving on.

So let me see if I get this straight…your family is bashing you over this whole separation thing and taking M.’s side instead of supporting and your decision not to be in a relationship with him? I certainly can’t and won’t tell you what to do but if my family was handing me that shit, I would distance myself from them until they got a clue, however long that might take.

I’m sending you lots of hugs. I’ve been through the separation and divorce and no matter if you’re the one who’s made the choice to end the marriage, it’s still difficult for both sides.

]]> By: Nanny Goats http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1547 Nanny Goats Fri, 07 Nov 2008 05:25:32 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1547 Do you have the nerve to tell the perv gangsta parking lot dude to whip it out and then point and laugh so that he will never want to grab it or show it to you again? Yeah, me neither. Do you have the nerve to tell the perv gangsta parking lot dude to whip it out and then point and laugh so that he will never want to grab it or show it to you again? Yeah, me neither.

]]> By: honeywine http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1546 honeywine Fri, 07 Nov 2008 02:31:13 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1546 I haven't spoken to Mom since. We REALLY got into it. It was the kind of fight I don't have with my family but once every 5 yrs or so. Usually, I'm the good daughter and try to diffuse everything, but I was so not in the mood for it this time. I blew! It wasn't pretty. I know, it will all be fine soon, but I'm so not going to coddle her while she steps all over me. Her constantly telling me that I should continue being married and refusal to even acknowledge the pain he has caused me kind of makes me want to flip out (her mother was the same way...forgiving the boy children anything while holding her up to an outrageously high standard). I try to be logical and forgiving of everyone, but after a while, it becomes hard to do it at all times. LOL As for my gagsta peep...OMG. Seriously, I am not hooking up in parking lots and I don't care if you're Will Smith...well...maybe not...he is fine...mmm... Ok, Will Smith gets a pass! lol But I'm glad YA'LL are getting a kick out of it!!! I could do without it myself! lol But, hey, I guess I can choose to be flattered...nah...it's still really creeping me out...especially since he has apparently been watching me. *giant shiver* The holidays have only 2 ways to go...quietly or BAD! I have no idea which I'm in for. Oy...I don't even want to think about it. I think I'm going to be able to actually...wait for it...BLOG TOMORROW! I'm taking a work day which is awesome since I'd rather be at work with it's lovely high speed internet and people to talk to that I like than nearly anywhere else. I'm going to blog my ass off! Woohoo! I haven’t spoken to Mom since. We REALLY got into it. It was the kind of fight I don’t have with my family but once every 5 yrs or so. Usually, I’m the good daughter and try to diffuse everything, but I was so not in the mood for it this time. I blew! It wasn’t pretty. I know, it will all be fine soon, but I’m so not going to coddle her while she steps all over me. Her constantly telling me that I should continue being married and refusal to even acknowledge the pain he has caused me kind of makes me want to flip out (her mother was the same way…forgiving the boy children anything while holding her up to an outrageously high standard). I try to be logical and forgiving of everyone, but after a while, it becomes hard to do it at all times.

LOL As for my gagsta peep…OMG. Seriously, I am not hooking up in parking lots and I don’t care if you’re Will Smith…well…maybe not…he is fine…mmm… Ok, Will Smith gets a pass! lol But I’m glad YA’LL are getting a kick out of it!!! I could do without it myself! lol But, hey, I guess I can choose to be flattered…nah…it’s still really creeping me out…especially since he has apparently been watching me. *giant shiver*

The holidays have only 2 ways to go…quietly or BAD! I have no idea which I’m in for. Oy…I don’t even want to think about it.

I think I’m going to be able to actually…wait for it…BLOG TOMORROW! I’m taking a work day which is awesome since I’d rather be at work with it’s lovely high speed internet and people to talk to that I like than nearly anywhere else. I’m going to blog my ass off! Woohoo!

]]> By: Laura http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1545 Laura Fri, 07 Nov 2008 01:59:30 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1545 At least you can be tormented by the upcoming holidays to take your mind off M. and his ho's. January is just around the corner...hang in there! At least you can be tormented by the upcoming holidays to take your mind off M. and his ho’s. January is just around the corner…hang in there!

]]> By: heather http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1544 heather Thu, 06 Nov 2008 18:31:05 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1544 My ex-husband is still friends with some close friends of mine, and I just don't know why. He said some really terrible things about them, and only called them when he wanted a ride. He even moved out of state and they go there to visit him when they can barely afford their mortgage. They are finally starting to drift apart, otherwise I was getting to the point that I just didn't want to hear about him anymore and started avoiding them. My ex-husband is still friends with some close friends of mine, and I just don’t know why. He said some really terrible things about them, and only called them when he wanted a ride. He even moved out of state and they go there to visit him when they can barely afford their mortgage. They are finally starting to drift apart, otherwise I was getting to the point that I just didn’t want to hear about him anymore and started avoiding them.

]]> By: docgrumbles http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1543 docgrumbles Thu, 06 Nov 2008 18:00:01 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1543 You really didn't hook up with the gangsta guy right there in the parking lot??? You really didn’t hook up with the gangsta guy right there in the parking lot???

]]> By: Danielle http://honeywine.wordpress.com/2008/11/05/testy/#comment-1542 Danielle Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:39:01 +0000 http://honeywine.wordpress.com/?p=581#comment-1542 *clapping* you're handling it so well! I'd like to THINK I'd be as mature and patient as you, but I'm just not sure I'm capable of it. There is a light at then end of the tunnel, just keep that in mind! Take lots of deep breaths and feel free to email me and we can have a bitch session ;o) Have a GREAT day! Hugs, -D *clapping* you’re handling it so well! I’d like to THINK I’d be as mature and patient as you, but I’m just not sure I’m capable of it. There is a light at then end of the tunnel, just keep that in mind! Take lots of deep breaths and feel free to email me and we can have a bitch session ;o) Have a GREAT day!
Hugs,
-D

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