I’m not ducking anyone. I’m not hiding out. I’m not disappearing off to love nest bliss (Paladin and I have hit the “as good as married” stride already). I’ve been hacking my guts out and when I wasn’t doing that I was painting or cleaning or wiping someone’s ass. And, when I did have time it was used to worry because Paladin is being ousted from the Army. He’s being “medically retired” which means a significant drop in pay. So, I’ll be keeping up my seemingly constant back-and-forth moving from house to house in order to keep my lovely ass-wiping job for quite a while. Sorry, I fogot to be blissfully, saccharin. Today, the sweetness ain’t comin’ so easy especially when I get blindsided by my BFF. 😦
Maybe it’s time I quit. Maybe it’s time to retire from the damnable internet bullshit. I thought the internet was supposed to be the place where you could come and while away some time and chat up other people who were doing the same and simply enjoy yourself. I didn’t know it was supposed to be a profession and that computers were supposed to be glued to your wrist. Whatever.
I don’t know what happened, but I hope you don’t give up your site. Sorry about Paladin’s job.
I won’t Margie. I’m just venting to ya’ll because she did the same. It’s petty and I shouldn’t. But it irks me. Since when did a blog become the way to talk to your friends about stuff that’s bothering you? I’m sure it will be fine once we get on the phone. We’ve had this same thing happen the last two times she fell for a guy. She’s always upset that I’m not jumping over the moon for her when it starts, but I’m always the first one there when the shite hits the fan. She has the opposite complaint about her other BFF’s. Seems like it works well to me. She’s got them for when things are great, and I’m here 24/7 whether she’s up or down. That’s not so bad. 😦
*Penny drops*
I hope you girls kiss and make up soon! I don’t want either one of you buggering off thanks very much! You were one of my very first readers and I would hate to lose you 😉
Hang in there, hon! Feel better and take some time for you! (((HUGS)))
Man when it rain it pours. That sucks about Paladin having to get out. I am a Army wife myself and would really be worried if my hubby got med boarded out. I am sure the 2 of you will get everything straighten out, sometimes a phone call to here each other voice is a great way to get things back on track. You can’t stop bloging I love reading you blogs. 🙂
I hope everthing works out and I am glad you are feeling better!
I blog when I want and thats that. If I don’t have time then, in my opinion, that is usually a good thing!! I use my blog to worry and complain so if I aint bloggin then things are going good!
I’m sorry about the job and the illnesses. I’m also sorry you are having a rough time with your friend. I know you two can work it out.
That sucks about Paladin! Who ever came up with the term ‘military intelligence’ was a flaming moron! As far as the BFF, we are women. And we will get over it, no matter what ‘it’ is, eventually! 😉
Sorry things have been so crappy. I can commiserate! And will always read your blog. So there.
Don’t lie, honey. You’re avoiding me.
Well I figured that you were just sick, like everyone else on the planet. We are just getting over the flu here!
Hang in there!
I forgot to say how sorry I am to hear about Paladin. Is there any kind of recourse he can take? Can he file for disability or his social security?
Hi Anna! I’m back! But I’m confused. You’re getting married again? You and M are already divorced?
Well, I think I know what’s going on and I’m sorry to see it because I love ya both! People do and say stupid things all the time so hopefully things will work out between you two. I think also sometimes each of us are just a bit more sensitive and things rub us the wrong way instead of rolling off our backs. We all have our days. I don’t think it is something to give up blogging over though. You’re just feeling down right now. I definitely think things will work out once things are talked over on the phone. Hugs to you!
I am sorry you are having a bit of a rough time.
It is normal for their to be a drop off in some parts of life when others get busy – at least until things balance out again.
Good Luck with everything,
I certainly hope you don’t retire from blogland…you (and I, both) may not be Everyday Bloggers, but I would miss you if you were gone 😦
I’m sorry about Paladin too…but you guys can make it work. There is always a way, love. (and that goes for the BFF too!)
Oh, no, it is what I thought. That sucks! You guys need to talk on the phone. The trouble with putting shit in writing is it almost always gets taken the wrong way. That’s what I hate about blogging, texting and e-mailing. I get in trouble all the time!
Blogsville seems to be in a bit of a snit this week for sure. I had no idea it wasn’t just me. Every blog I’ve read today is showing the stresses of life. Anyone got a large stash of Valium or Xanax out there? Hang in there, girl. If I have to, so do you!